Top of Mind: June 28, 2018

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Top of Mind: June 28, 2018
June 28th, 2018
by Bill Boyajian

It happens all the time. People suffer losses and need to grieve. But one of the worst things you can do is to tell a grieving person that you “feel his pain.” That undermines the very goal you have in trying to come alongside someone who needs your support.

So instead of rushing into a situation to try to help, walk beside someone first by connecting with their personal feelings. People will know that they aren’t alone, and you will know what it truly means to show empathy.

Empathy works better with fewer words and warmer actions because connection brings healing. So the next time you see someone hurting, practice thinking less of yourself and more of the person who needs your help. Give your time and attention away.

Here are a few Business & Life Tips to think about….

Business Tips:

The best way to better your life is to support your friends and colleagues. Try giving more than taking. The return will be greater.
Learn to speak in an economy of words. People tune you out when you drone on, especially about yourself. Keep it short.
Do more than is expected in your work, for your client, or helping your friend. Few stand out as extraordinary. Be that person.

Life Tips:

Selfishness hurts relationships, but selflessness enhances them. It requires a sincere commitment to others, putting them first.
Volunteer your time to worthy nonprofits because they need your support. It also makes you feel good to know you’ve made a difference.
If we learn something each day, help someone each day, and bring joy to another each day, we can consider that a really good day.

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Managing Partner,
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Birmingham, AL

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