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It’s Not What Happens to You
July 28th, 2024
by Bill Boyajian

Some people complain about change so vehemently that one wonders how they get along in life.  Change is inevitable and not always pleasant, but it’s not what happens to you that is important; it’s what you do about it.

Nothing stays the same, so constant worry about things getting back to normal is a waste of time and energy.  It saps your vitality and depletes the natural vigor we should feel after a good night’s sleep. 

Instead, we should all be alert to how we can respond more appropriately to change and not react as if the world is about to end.  Unfortunately, we often think about “our little world” that revolves around us and that’s all we see.  We need to put things in proper perspective by looking outside ourselves. 

When business owners complain to me about how their industry or company or employees or technology has changed for the worse, I know they are on a collision course to failure.  It’s not what knocks us down that is the problem.  It’s what holds us back from getting up.

Which is why it’s not what happens to you; it’s how you respond and what you do about it.



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